Sunday, February 3, 2013

Unassigned Entry #1 Navy: The other side of the story


As of 10/25/12 I became the girlfriend of a United States Navy Sailor. My boyfriend of almost five years joined the Navy to defend our country and fight for our freedom. On the outside I was so proud of him for doing this, but on the inside I was a disaster zone. Soon enough my outside would join my inside and I became and emotional wreck. I was scared beyond belief. This is a huge commitment and not only was i afraid of losing him as my boyfriend, but I was scared of losing him in combat.
                                                                                                                              The day he left for boot camp was a day I will never forget. I took him to his meeting place said my goodbye and drove off with tears streaming from my face. This was such a huge change for me. For the next two months I would have no contact with the person I had just spent the last four and a half years of my life with. Those two months killed me, but I knew that if I could do this I could handle anything. After two months of waiting the day came where we would finally be reunited. I loved him so much that I would wake up at four a.m., wait in the freezing snow for half and hour and sit on an icy bench just to see him again. At nine o clock finally seated the procession started and each division came in. 031,032 I waited and waited and when they called 038 I screamed my head off I knew he was in there and soon enough he would be mine again. The ceremony was phenomenal but the woman who was in charged was testing my patience. After repeating the same information what seemed like a million times she said those two words I was waiting for..."Liberty Calls". Once those words were said all bets were off. I flew down the stairs not caring of who I took down in the process I searched and search and then he came rushing out of the crowd. I have never been so happy in my life to see him. I was over joyed and filled with tears. I knew he was mine and a keeper at that. I was speechless all I could do was cry and smile. He was able to come home with me for two weeks before he had to go back to A-school and those two weeks were incredible. I am so lucky to have him in my life. The day he went back I knew the worst was over, but it is never saying goodbye to the one you love the most. This whole experience has taught me that somethings in life no matter hard it is is worth the fight. I was so new to this Navy girlfriend business and was so lost. I had no one to talk to let alone anyone who knew what I was going through until I snooped around on Facebook. My Sailor Stole My Heart (  https://www.facebook.com/MySailorStoleMyHeart?fref=ts) is the best website I could have found. There are people there my age who know what I am going through and that makes it so much easier to deal with. My boyfriend is serving our country to keep us free and I am fighting the battle of keeping us together and supporting him fight for our freedom.

My blog is showing support for all the girlfriends, wife  and fiances of Navy Sailors who are fighting their own battle and holding the fort down at home. I hope this blog can help some else know that they are not alone in this fight. -Alexandria                                                 

8 comments:

  1. Ahhh, I loved this story! It's heart breaking but also a tear jerker but an amazing love story all in one! I'm a sucker for these kinds of stories so I hope you have more to share. Great job!

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  2. I am really glad you liked it. I was hoping to continue this story with all my unassigned blogs, so there will be more to come:).

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  3. Alexandria!

    Your story made me cry and I knew you when all of this was going on! I had no idea how difficult it was for you, I also didn't know you weren't able to talk to him at all while he was gone the first time. You're an amazingly strong woman for being faithful to someone who is gone a lot of the time, I know many women who were not able to commit like you are. You should be very proud of yourself as well as your boyfriend.

    -Libby

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  4. Wow, this was just a great story! I can imagine how hard it was for you to not talk to him through those two long months! But he's doing want he wants and I'm glad your there supporting him!

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  5. I am so glad everyone is enjoying my blog.
    Libby: I was hiding my emotions very well in Mythology class last semester. I am very proud of him and starting to become proud of myself. I am so glad you like it.

    Ary:I am really glad you like my blog. I will continue writing on this topic so follow me if you want more information.

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  6. Just wanted to say I really liked reading this! Deffinately touched my heart. I have best friend that joined the navy and he only has a couple more weeks till he's gone. So maybe not the same experience your going through but I can deffinately relate on some level. Hope the best for you guys! Stay strong!

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    1. I am really glad you liked my story I am glad it touched your heart. It is defiantly relate able. It is never easy to have someone you care about join the military. Thank you we are going strong and I hope you keep reading:)

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  7. Alexandria--Your blog is coming along nicely. Your writing flows well, and your voice is comfortable. You have a good visual appeal here, and your content is pretty well developed so far. Keep working on developing your content, making sure it connects to the reader; make sure your ideas are important to them. Keep it up.

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